{"id":313,"date":"2020-07-26T22:06:00","date_gmt":"2020-07-26T21:06:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/darkskydigital.co.uk\/clients\/av\/?p=313"},"modified":"2020-12-06T22:07:12","modified_gmt":"2020-12-06T22:07:12","slug":"your-memoirs-me-mammy-says-its-not-right","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/darkskydigital.co.uk\/clients\/av\/flash-memoir-project\/your-memoirs-me-mammy-says-its-not-right\/","title":{"rendered":"Your Memoirs \u2013 \u201cMe mammy says it\u2019s not right\u201d"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>1972 was the year I started my first job, voted for the first time in a referendum on the EEC and joined the local drama and musical society. My passions were writing and theatre but I needed a livelihood and a career. Choices were few and there was no money for University.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>My job was as an apprentice in a Dublin inner city pharmacy, an old-fashioned system involving three years training in the shop and a year at the college of Pharmacy. My boss a woman with eyes like the sea on a stormy day and a tight smile.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Each morning I set out from my home facing a lovely park and the sea, to a dreary inner-city space where families were large and houses were small. I was a quick learner and enjoyed the doing and making \u2013 creams and lotions \u2013 two very different consistencies and mixtures. But the conditions were not good. I was required to be everything from a trainee pharmacist to a cleaner and load carrier. The large front window where we could see the local folk going by had to be cleaned by me in all weathers.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The biggest shock for me was the poverty and the number of women on Valium, a muscle relaxant. On reflection, I could see it was used to tranquilise people against poverty and against perfection. The state and the Catholic Church placed a burden on women to be mothers of many children, and to be the moral compass of the society.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It was a hard start for me whose family was not wealthy but was comfortable, well fed and clothed. We lived in a bonny area.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Contraception was only available on prescription and in very restricted circumstance. One customer who had six children, told me she was thirty-two. She had a prescription for the pill.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When I brought it to her, she said I\u2019ll put this under my pillow. I must have looked alarmed but she smiled, said I know it\u2019s a tablet. She leaned in, whispered \u2018Me mammy says it\u2019s not right!\u2019<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Submitted by Rona Fitzgerald, 66, Glasgow<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>1972 was the year I started my first job, voted for the first time in a referendum on the EEC and joined the local drama and musical society. My passions were writing and theatre but I needed a livelihood and a career. Choices were few and there was no money for University. My job was &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/darkskydigital.co.uk\/clients\/av\/flash-memoir-project\/your-memoirs-me-mammy-says-its-not-right\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Your Memoirs \u2013 \u201cMe mammy says it\u2019s not right\u201d<\/span> <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[73,74],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/darkskydigital.co.uk\/clients\/av\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/313"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/darkskydigital.co.uk\/clients\/av\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/darkskydigital.co.uk\/clients\/av\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/darkskydigital.co.uk\/clients\/av\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/darkskydigital.co.uk\/clients\/av\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=313"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/darkskydigital.co.uk\/clients\/av\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/313\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":314,"href":"https:\/\/darkskydigital.co.uk\/clients\/av\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/313\/revisions\/314"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/darkskydigital.co.uk\/clients\/av\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=313"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/darkskydigital.co.uk\/clients\/av\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=313"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/darkskydigital.co.uk\/clients\/av\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=313"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}